HELPING YOU SUCCESSFULLY MANAGE AN OVERWHELMING PROCESS
The concerns facing people going through a divorce after a longterm marriage are nothing short of overwhelming. In addition to the emotions involved in moving on from your partner and the co-parent of your children, comes an inescapable range of familial concerns and financial decisions.
This maelstrom of issues often makes a difficult process even more confusing than it inherently already is. Worse yet, when behavior is charged by emotion, it can lead to resolutions that are not ultimately in the best interests of you and your family.
As a divorce coach, my role is to help steer you through the process of divorce in a pragmatic, productive and dignified way. We break the issues down as I help you gain clarity and make well thought-out decisions through all steps of your divorce journey, helping you choose your battles and reach resolutions that will work best for the long term. As a former family attorney, I also will help guide you in utilizing your attorney and other professionals efficiently and wisely.
How you handle divorce is important. It has long-lasting effects on your future. I provide support as your “big picture” coach and advocate.
5 STEPS TOWARD HELPING YOU “GET TO THE OTHER SIDE”
DUE DILIGENCE: GETTING TO KNOW YOU
While some aspects of marital conflict may be similar from case to case, each individual brings a unique set of familial and financial circumstances, dynamics and concerns. I work with clients at all stages of divorce, from those who are not sure if they should leave their marriage, to those going through the process and even clients who are divorced and struggling with unforeseen after-effects of their divorce agreements. The first step is getting to understand you, your unique set of circumstances and what you hope to achieve.
HELPING YOU MAINTAIN CONTROL
Even the world’s most evolved individuals and professionals can be confounded by the unexpected issues and triggers that arise in the divorce process. No matter what your circumstances or demeanor, I help you rise above these challenges with practical techniques and strategies to help you steer clearly and avoid being overwhelmed. I will help you maintain your personal strength and dignity so that you can deal with the negative aspects more effectively, enabling you to move forward.
BREAKING DOWN THE DIVORCE JOURNEY
Wherever you are in your divorce process, it is less overwhelming when broken down into digestible steps. Initially, I will give you an overview of what each stage will involve. Then, I will guide you through each step, one by one, making sure you also have the right professional support to settle each issue properly.
STAYING PROACTIVE & GETTING THE JOB DONE
One of the ugliest aspects of divorce is how long it can drag on and how convoluted and expensive the process can get. Together, we will create a customized action plan that will motivate you to set goals, check off milestones as we cross them, and keep you moving efficiently forward towards the future that you want.
SUPPORT WHEN YOU NEED IT
My role is to act as your personal support system and advocate. Friends and family can provide needed support, but are often biased and lack the big picture understanding and experience to guide you efficiently to your best longterm decisions. I provide unbiased, skilled guidance and support to help you “be your best self,” use expensive professional services more efficiently and help ensure that you have a successful transition to your new life after divorce.